net/mlx5: optimize shared RSS list operation

When create shared RSS hrxq, the hrxq will be created directly, no hrxq
will be reused.

In this case, add the shared RSS hrxq to the queue list is redundant.
And it also hurts the generic queue lookup.

This commit avoids add the shared RSS hrxq to the queue list.

Signed-off-by: Suanming Mou <suanmingm@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Matan Azrad <matan@nvidia.com>