vhost: support host notifier queue configuration

vhost: support host notifier queue configuration

As an arrangement to per queue operations in the vDPA device it is
needed to change the next experimental API:

The API ``rte_vhost_host_notifier_ctrl`` was changed to be per queue
instead of per device.

A `qid` parameter was added to the API arguments list.

Setting the parameter to the value RTE_VHOST_QUEUE_ALL configures the
host notifier to all the device queues as done before this patch.

Signed-off-by: Matan Azrad <matan@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Maxime Coquelin <maxime.coquelin@redhat.com>