net/mlx5: fix queue leaking in hairpin auto bind check

net/mlx5: fix queue leaking in hairpin auto bind check

During the start up stage, the hairpin auto bind was executed for
each port. All the Tx and Rx queues configured for this port should
be checked to confirm if the auto bind of hairpin is needed.
1. The queue is hairpin queue.
2. The peer port is the same one and the peer queue should also be
   with hairpin type.
3. The manual bind attribute is not set for this queue.

If the queue is not a hairpin queue or it doesn't need to be bound
automatically, the reference count should be decreased by 1 since
the count was increased when calling the mlx5_*xq_get().
When the peer port is not the same, it means that no auto bind is
supported and the mlx5_*xq_release() was missed in the current
implementation.

By calling the release function before continue, the count is
correct when calling the device close.

Fixes: aa8bea0e3455 ("net/mlx5: add conditional hairpin auto bind")
Cc: stable@dpdk.org
Signed-off-by: Bing Zhao <bingz@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>