eal: hide shared memory config

eal: hide shared memory config

Now that everything that has ever accessed the shared memory
config is doing so through the public API's, we can make it
internal. Since we're removing quite a few headers from
rte_eal_memconfig.h, we need to add them back in places
where this header is used.

This bumps the ABI, so also change all build files and make
update documentation.

Signed-off-by: Anatoly Burakov <anatoly.burakov@intel.com>
Acked-by: Stephen Hemminger <stephen@networkplumber.org>
Acked-by: David Marchand <david.marchand@redhat.com>