net/mlx5: rename flow counter configuration macro

net/mlx5: rename flow counter configuration macro

The HAVE_IBV_DEVICE_COUNTERS_SET_SUPPORT is replaced with
HAVE_IBV_DEVICE_COUNTERS_SET_V42. At this stage it is just
macro renaming. This macro is defined if system supports
the "old" Flow counters functionality, MLNX_OFED version
from 4.2 to 4.4 is required.

We need to do this preparation before introducing the new
configuration macro (HAVE_IBV_DEVICE_COUNTERS_SET_V45) for
the "new" Flow counters support.

Both makefile and meson.build are changed.

Signed-off-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@mellanox.com>