common/mlx5: fix compatibility with OFED port query API

common/mlx5: fix compatibility with OFED port query API

The compilation flag HAVE_MLX5DV_DR_DEVX_PORT depends on presence
of mlx5dv_query_devx_port routine in rdma-core library.

The mlx5dv_query_devx_port routine exists only in OFED versions
of rdma-core library and is being planned to be removed and replaced
with Upstream compatible mlx5dv_query_port.

As mlx5dv_query_devx_port is being removed all the dependencies on
the HAVE_MLX5DV_DR_DEVX_PORT compilation flag are reconsidered.

The new compilation flag HAVE_MLX5DV_DR_CREATE_DEST_IB_PORT is for
backward compatibility with older OFED versions.

Fixes: 6cfe84fbe7b1 ("net/mlx5: fix port action for LAG")
Cc: stable@dpdk.org
Signed-off-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Matan Azrad <matan@nvidia.com>