net/virtio-user: do not assume vhost status feature

net/virtio-user: do not assume vhost status feature

There are some status reads and updates that need to happen before the
protocol features are negotiated. Therefore, assuming the backend does
support this feature can lead to failures.

On server mode, do not assume the backend supports
VHOST_USER_PROTOCOL_F_STATUS. Activate it back on reconnection and
clear it on disconnection.

Fixes: 57912824615f ("net/virtio-user: support vhost status setting")
Cc: stable@dpdk.org
Signed-off-by: Adrian Moreno <amorenoz@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Maxime Coquelin <maxime.coquelin@redhat.com>