net/mlx5: fix link status change detection

net/mlx5: fix link status change detection

Sometimes net/mlx5 devices did not detect link status change to "up".

Each shared device was monitoring IBV_EVENT_PORT_{ACTIVE,ERR}
and queried the link status upon receiving the event.
IBV_EVENT_PORT_ACTIVE is delivered when the logical link status
(UP flag) is set, but the physical link status (RUNNING flag)
may be down at that time, in which case the new link status
would be erroneously considered down.

IBV interface is insufficient for the task.
Monitor interface events using Netlink.

Fixes: 198a3c339a8f ("mlx5: handle link status interrupts")
Cc: stable@dpdk.org
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Kozlyuk <dkozlyuk@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>