vhost: return error message for mbuf allocation failure

vhost: return error message for mbuf allocation failure

mbuf allocation failure is a hard failure that highlights some
significant issues with memory pool size or a mbuf leak.

We still have the message for subsequent chained mbufs, but not
for the first one.  It was removed while introducing extbuf
support for large buffers.  But it was useful for catching
mempool issues and needs to be returned back.

Fixes: c3ff0ac70acb ("vhost: improve performance by supporting large buffer")

Signed-off-by: Ilya Maximets <i.maximets@ovn.org>
Reviewed-by: Flavio Leitner <fbl@sysclose.org>
Reviewed-by: Tiwei Bie <tiwei.bie@intel.com>