eal/freebsd: fix use of newer cpuset macros

eal/freebsd: fix use of newer cpuset macros

FreeBSD has updated its CPU macros to align more with the definitions
used on Linux[1]. Unfortunately, while this makes compatibility better
in future, it means we need to have both legacy and newer definition
support. Use a meson check to determine which set of macros are used.

[1] https://cgit.freebsd.org/src/commit/?id=e2650af157bc

Bugzilla ID: 1014
Fixes: c3568ea37670 ("eal: restrict control threads to startup CPU affinity")
Fixes: b6be16acfeb1 ("eal: fix control thread affinity with --lcores")
Cc: stable@dpdk.org
Signed-off-by: David Marchand <david.marchand@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Bruce Richardson <bruce.richardson@intel.com>
Tested-by: Daxue Gao <daxuex.gao@intel.com>