net/mlx5: fix reference count on detached indirect action

net/mlx5: fix reference count on detached indirect action

This patch fixes segfault which was triggered when port, with indirect
actions created, was closed. Segfault was occurring only when
RTE_LIBRTE_MLX5_DEBUG was defined. It was caused by redundant decrement
of RX queues refcount:

- refcount was decremented when port was stopped and indirect actions
were detached from RX queues (port stop),
- refcount was decremented when indirect actions objects were destroyed
(port close or destroying of indirect action).

This patch fixes behavior. Dereferencing Rx queues is done if and only
if indirect action is explicitly destroyed by the user or detached on
port stop. Dereferencing Rx queues on action destroy operation depends
on an argument to the wrapper of indirect action destroy operation,
introduced in this patch.

Fixes: ec4e11d41d12 ("net/mlx5: preserve indirect actions on restart")
Cc: stable@dpdk.org
Signed-off-by: Dariusz Sosnowski <dsosnowski@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Matan Azrad <matan@nvidia.com>