net/mlx5: refactor getting counter action pointer

net/mlx5: refactor getting counter action pointer

Previously API flow_dv_query_count_ptr is defined to get counter's
action pointer. This DV function is directly called and the better
way is by the callback.

Add one arg in API mlx5_counter_query and the related callback
counter_query. The added arg is for counter's action pointer.

Signed-off-by: Haifei Luo <haifeil@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>