net/mlx5: optimize flow director filter memory

net/mlx5: optimize flow director filter memory

This commit is for mlx5 fdir flow memory optimization.

Currently for the fdir member in rte_flow structure. It saves the fdir
memory pointer directly. As fdir is fading away, use one bit help to
indicate the function in the flow and add the content to an extra list
save the memory for the other widely usage cases.

Signed-off-by: Wentao Cui <wentaoc@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Suanming Mou <suanmingm@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@mellanox.com>