net/mlx5: add ASO connection tracking destroy

net/mlx5: add ASO connection tracking destroy

When trying to destroy an ASO connection tracking context, the DR
action created on this context should also be destroyed. Before
inserting the related software object into the management free list,
the reference count should be checked.

Right now, the context object will not be freed to the system and
will be reused directly from the free list.

Signed-off-by: Bing Zhao <bingz@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>