net/mlx5: support shared action for RSS

net/mlx5: support shared action for RSS

Implement shared action create/destroy/update/query. The current
implementation support is limited to shared RSS action only. The shared
RSS action create operation prepares hash RX queue objects for all
supported permutations of the hash.  The shared RSS action update
operation relies on functionality to modify hash RX queue introduced in
one of the previous commits in this patch series.

Implement RSS shared action and handle shared RSS on flow apply and
release. The lookup for hash RX queue object for RSS action is limited
to the set of objects stored in the shared action itself and when
handling shared RSS action. The lookup for hash RX queue object inside
shared action is performed by hash only.

Current implementation limited to DV flow driver operations i.e. verbs
flow driver operations doesn't support shared action.

Signed-off-by: Andrey Vesnovaty <andreyv@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>