net/mlx5: optimize flow RSS struct

net/mlx5: optimize flow RSS struct

When destroy the flow with RSS, flow can invoke the queues information
from hrxq index table object, since the queue number and list are both
saved to the index table object. No need to save the duplicated data in
rte flow.

Save the RSS description information to the intermediate private data
when create the flow with RSS action helps to save the memory for rte
flow.

Signed-off-by: Suanming Mou <suanmingm@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@mellanox.com>