net/mlx5: update source and destination vport translations

net/mlx5: update source and destination vport translations

There new kernel/rdma_core [1] supports matching on metadata
register instead of vport field to provide operations over
VF LAG bonding configurations. This patch provides correct
translations for flow matchers and destination port actions
if united E-Switch (for VF LAG) is configured and/or new vport
matching mode is engaged.

[1] http://patchwork.ozlabs.org/cover/1122170/
    "Mellanox, mlx5 vport metadata matching"

Signed-off-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Matan Azrad <matan@mellanox.com>