net/mlx5: optimize hash list table allocate on demand

net/mlx5: optimize hash list table allocate on demand

Currently, all the hash list tables are allocated during start up.
Since different applications may only use dedicated limited actions,
optimized the hash list table allocate on demand will save initial
memory.

This commit optimizes hash list table allocate on demand.

Signed-off-by: Suanming Mou <suanmingm@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Matan Azrad <matan@nvidia.com>