net/mlx5: fix shared RSS action update

net/mlx5: fix shared RSS action update

The shared RSS action update was not operational due to lack
of kernel driver support of TIR object modification.
This commit introduces the workaround to support shared RSS
action modify using an indirect queue table update instead of
touching TIR object directly.
Limitations: the only supported RSS property to update is queues, the
rest of the properties ignored.

Fixes: d2046c09aa64 ("net/mlx5: support shared action for RSS")
Signed-off-by: Andrey Vesnovaty <andreyv@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Viacheslav Ovsiienko <viacheslavo@nvidia.com>