net/memif: optimize with one-way barrier

net/memif: optimize with one-way barrier

Using 'rte_mb' to synchronize the shared ring head/tail between producer
and consumer will stall the pipeline and damage performance on the weak
memory model platforms, such like aarch64. Meanwhile update the shared
ring head and tail are observable and ordered between CPUs on IA.

Optimized this full barrier with the one-way barrier can improve the
throughput. On aarch64 n1sdp server this patch make testpmd throughput
boost 2.1%. On Intel E5-2640, testpmd got 3.98% performance gain.

Signed-off-by: Phil Yang <phil.yang@arm.com>
Reviewed-by: Gavin Hu <gavin.hu@arm.com>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Grajciar <jgrajcia@cisco.com>